Tuesday, March 31, 2020

Corona time is time for Reflection

Time for reflection
If we can't go out, we go inside
But inside - that is within ourselves – it might not be that comfortable,
easier to spend time with the phone or tv.
But no, let's take this opportunity
to connect on a deeper level with ourselves
with our soul, with our body, to get to know our mind and learn how to become more rooted in our self and more present in the moment.

Let's move into the realm of the unknown.

To not know
where all this is going to lead,
how long this is going to take
and how the world is going to be when the pandemic is over
can be quite scary.
We can't control the situation.
But, as a matter of fact, we are never in control! 
Life is unpredictable. Always. Everything is changing and nothing is permanent.

So let's take this opportunity to befriend our fear, to relax in the unknown and learn about trust.

It is in the unknown transformation happens
It's there where we are forced to try new things, new ideas, new behaviour, new thoughts. To come up with new solutions and be creative and inventive.
When everything is predictable and familiar we follow the same thought-and behaviour patterns and so we have the same results as we've always had.

Now the whole world is thrown into a big unknown.

And there lies big potential to create something new.

Because, honestly, is the world as we know it really what we want to return to?
Do we want to go back to that consumerism-is-all-that-counts-kind of economy?

The world was already in big crises before this virus came along; an environmental crises where we are about to face the sixth mass extinction.
Plastic islands in the oceans, poisoned rivers, rainforests – the lungs of the earth – being cut down. Just like that, totally normal and legal.
There were, and still are of course, huge crises caused by wars. Masses of homeless people are victims of war caused by men in power, it is a shame in our time, don't you think? These wars are created within a mindset that says that it is normal.
The world as we know it was also dealing with a health crises, even before and much more spread, than the corona virus: That's all the millions of people suffering from all kinds of stress related sicknesses and mental issues. There's also a depression pandemic!
And there are democracy crises, justice crises, social crises, human rights crises...

And so much more that you already know, I don't have to mention it all.

So, to make it short; why go back to a system that destroys the planet we are living on, harms so many fellow humans and sentient beings and makes us feeling depressed, sick or stressed out? Why go back to normal?

You say, but are there any alternatives? What about the economy? People must have jobs so they can pay the bills.
Of course there are alternatives! Of course there are solutions. There are many many people out there coming up with new technologies, new inventions and new possibilities for a better world. There are people who have great ideas and visions for a world beyond the unsustainable and damaging system that we know.

You can be one of them.
Yes, by looking inside yourself, at the bottom of your heart and finding your deepest desires, your true values and what is really important to you.

Instead of fearing the crises we can look at it as opportunity.
An opportunity to create something new, to evolve, to move to another level, to another paradigm.
The thing is that in that critical phase of crises, of the unknown, so many people give in to fear and even panic and that creates a wish to go back to normal. It might not be the best but it is safe, it is familiar and anything is better than this scary unknown territory and state of emergency.

So, we must first become friends with the unknown within ourselves and face our fear and learn to relax into it. Not denying it or pushing it away but be with it.
Take a deep breath and feel it, be with it, acknowledge it and accept it. Embrace your fear.
The best way I know to do that is in meditation. I attach a file at the end of this post with a short meditation you can listen to if you need a little guidance.

Then, the next step is to look at our values, what is really important to us.
Let's look at our desires and deepest longings, and ask ourselves; what kind of life would I really like to live?
How would I like the world to look like?
What is my greatest vision of my own dreamlife and of the whole world?
Allow yourself to daydream! Really get into it and feel it and look at all different kinds of areas in your life and at the world at large. Be playful and create in your mind a vision that feeeeeels goooood!
Then hold that vision.
If you want, write it or paint it.
But keep going there; think about it often, talk about it, share it, post it.
Ask others what their vision of a better world is.
Engage in or start conversations that support ideas of a more sustainable world and a better future for all.

The point here is a shift of focus: Get informed, yes, do what needs to be done, yes, but then, come back to the real work; take care of yourself on a deeper level, mind your vibrations and what you contribute to your environment.

Know that you are important, you have an impact, we are all connected.
Keep social distance but not social isolation!

You find the 8 minute short meditation here